When it comes to caring for your elderly relatives, you want to make sure they are treated with respect, love, and patience. While it may be stressful at times, you must remember that becoming reliant on you or others for their care is not easy for them. It is critical that you become acquainted with methods for providing them with the best possible care.
Recruit Assistance
It’s possible that you’ll need to hire a helper, aide, or caretaker. This could be someone who assists your loved one with daily tasks such as showering, running errands, or doing housework. You should always check references or go through a licensed agency if it isn’t someone you know personally. Depending on whether your loved one qualifies, this may need to be a budgeted expense or a resource that is available for a nominal fee or for free.
Make Changes to Their Residence
It’s best to look around their house and determine what might be a safety hazard. Some changes may be simple, while others may be more involved. These are some of them:
A ramp for wheelchairs or walkers is being installed.
Adding grab bars and handrails to the toilet and shower.
Putting in a raised toilet seat.
Smoke and carbon monoxide detectors should be tested (or installed).
Examining the overall lighting in the house to ensure that it is adequate.
Installing a few auto-sensor nightlights throughout the house so they can see if they wake up in the middle of the night.
Make sure there are non-skid mats or strips in the shower or bathtub, as well as any other areas of the house that could be slippery.
Visit Frequently
It is critical to pay them frequent visits. They benefit from the social interaction with you, and you benefit from the assurance that they are safe, healthy, and doing well in general. It’s always a good idea to look around the house during your visit for any issues that need to be addressed, such as the overall cleanliness of the house or if anything is broken that needs to be fixed. Check their food supply, laundry, mail, and plants on a regular basis.
Keep Them Engaged
It’s critical to keep your elderly loved one engaged and active. It is critical that they exercise in order to maintain their health. Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for the elderly to become isolated and lonely, and even depressed, especially if their spouse has passed away. It’s critical that they stay in touch with their family and friends, and they may even want to branch out and meet new people. There are a variety of activities and places to visit in your community that will keep your loved one social and active.
Keep an eye out for problems while driving.
Due to declining cognitive abilities and reaction time on the road, your loved one may no longer be able to drive. It is critical to assess their driving abilities and, if this becomes a problem, to provide alternative solutions such as hiring a driver or using a grocery delivery service.
Examine their prescriptions.
Ascertain that they are receiving their medications in a timely manner. It’s critical that all of their prescriptions are filled and refilled on a regular basis. If they take a lot of medications, a pill box organizer with compartments labeled with the days of the week, as well as AM and PM doses, is a good investment. This may make it easier for them to take their medications. Also, if a new medication is prescribed, make sure to ask your doctor or pharmacist about any potential side effects or drug interactions.
Discuss their financial situation with them.
From dealing with medical bills to covering the costs of home safety upgrades, aging comes with a slew of expenses and financial difficulties. Your elderly relative may require additional financial assistance to cover their expenses if they are retired. Discuss their financial resources (such as pensions or retirement savings) with them and devise a plan to assist them if necessary.
If they want to stay at home but can’t afford their current rent or mortgage, for example. You could offer to assist them in finding a smaller apartment or condo that fits their budget.
They may also be eligible for government assistance programs to help them pay for things like heating bills or prescription drugs.
Look for resources in your area, such as assisted living facilities or in-home care services, if you are unable to care for them yourself. As a caregiver, it’s important to remember to take care of yourself as well.